Thanks for the feedback. I will need to think this over. Wife is currently away with my daughter for a week long trip. I was really looking forward to my wife being away, but for some reason I have been feeling really down since she left.
I thought that I was further along re the detaching, but I guess not. Anyway, the whole issue of my wife still communicating with the OM is a hard one for me to accept. She is supposed to be looking for a new job, but each time an opportunity comes up, she always manages somehow to "forget" to submit her application.
I just don't see how you can get over an EA when you continue to work with the OM and have access to them on a daily basis. Also bothers me that she thinks that this is acceptable and that she can continue to get away with it even though she knows that I do not approve.
