GAG, just loved the little tagboard signs...you have such creative ideas. I agree with MHL that perhaps XH had this holiday booked from some time ago. And clearly he doesn't think holidays are the 'romantic cure-all'.
MHL joins the rest of us that see so many positives here! The fact that XH has asked you to visit with his mother is a real sign of his trust in you. He appreciates the love and care you show and your personal support to him.
MHL makes the comment I have made in my situation....what female would be happy with a partner who has weekly dates with his XW? Whether he is with her or not is immaterial at this point; he is clearly not seeing her as a long term, committed partner. It seems she is the back up plan until he is certain he can move forward with you. It is a huge move for the WAS to reconnect when they have initiated the separation in the first place. It means they have to eat humble pie and that's challenging for all of us.
GAG, I think of Dia's situation when I read your posts. Her H kept moving slowly, slowly towards her. As the outsiders looking in we could see and applaud the forward movements but it wasn't as apparent to Dia.
