Abbey, you need to calm down and stop calling him. That is not attractive and will totally turn him off. If he is with OW....what do you think calling him is going to do?

You can't tie him down and force him to be a good boy. You can't make him be a faithful H. You can't make him love you.

You deserve better than this.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!