Punkin, I also know the sense of being hated. It's emanating very strongly off of my H right now.
Beatrice is right in the fact that because H isn't getting his own way in the D, it is just one more reason to add to the list.
My S27 said the same thing that Beatrice did when I said to him this morning that I didn't understand what I did to make H feel this way about me and to do what he's done. S said, "Mom, he doesn't hate you, he hates himself."
They're miserable and they're trying everything they can to out run it. In the end, it will catch up to them.
