Well, if Henry Cloud recommends dating FIVE at once, okay...but where do I find them?
I am pretty clear in what I want, but I'm ready to try dating someone "outide the box" as well.
cat03, Just go for it!! These days the guys are expecting us to contact them and actually like it. I've sent out lots of short messages and I don't get many responses. My therapist said to be glad about that because she knows I'm strong, confident, financially independent, not desperate or needy and many of these guys are threatened/intimidated by that. Oh well...I'm not changing for anybody. And don't worry about your body or your looks. Your lovely personality is what will shine through and they will love you for it!
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10