......are these itty bitty baby steps?

[MHL]

MHL, I was reminded recently of what you wrote me in the past about how men tend to have a new R lined up before they finish their current R. I'm thinking that this may be true of XH. He has done this kind of thing in the past. Time will tell.

GAG,

It probably is over already if I had to guess, might have ended on friendly terms in fact. I will tell you that is often the case in dating in our more "mature" years, where if the relationship is not working out that the 2 people involved usually part on good terms. That could be the sitch here.

I really don't think that someone he is dating would be "okay" with him being with you or "where ever" one night a week. I sure as heck would not go for that.

It will be interesting to watch upon his return.

Hey MHL, great to see you again! I see you've gotten some color on your cheeks from those lovely, warm days in the "south" (geographic location is relative). Glad to see that things are going well for you!

Thanks for the observations and yes things are going well, I guess that is why I have not been posting as much lately......it is sooo true that once your life does get "back on track" you don't have as much free time. Dating someone that lives 1.5 hours away doesn't help either....LOL

Greetings to everyone else also!!!!!

Cheers
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