I have read lots more on this site - I know I am doing everything wrong! But if I act strong & as if I'm ok he will leave - while he is here we have a chance. I have done some good stuff - I've gone out on my own afew times - acted up beat, not talked about affair or us but it didn't seem to work as he kept seeing her. Now he is adamant we will separate & he will be with her. How do I make him want me again. He says he cares & finds me attractive but loves her. How can I change this - I don't think I've got very long - I need something that will start working quickly. He encourages me to go out and even suggested I see someone else. Is it too late? Is there any hope? Should I give up? Is it wrong to keep having a sexual relationship? Will this bring us closer? Should I try and find out more about his affair? Should I speak to ow? I thought about e mailing her as I have her e mail address. I am so confused & so anxious. All this is hurting me & my kids. They know something is wrong. I am being a useless mum.
