LM, I cannot know why he is maintaining contact beyond his obligations to the children.
Perhaps he cannot move on. Perhaps he’s coming out of the fog. Perhaps he’s testing the waters.
We can perhaps what our WAS do to death and the only thing we’ll accomplish is more stress and worry for ourselves.
It contributes to our uncertainly and undermines our self confidence. It makes us vulnerable.
We all maintain hope and we will never truly be completely divorced from them. In my own sitch someday there will be grandchildren to fuss over and love. I’ll be better off when I have detached and moved on as completely as I am comfortable with.
How comfortable are you with your present level of detachment and autonomy?
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill
