guess the whole 'dragging on' is what is killing me.
When I was in AirBorne school they use to tell us not to look at the gound when we jumped out of an airplane. They would say "Look at the horizon the whole time. Do not look down. The ground will come I promise you, just look ahead and when it gets there it gets there"
The point of this was once you leave the airplane you know you only have control of one thing, yourself. 98% of the time the chute would open and 100% the ground would come. The difference on whether you walked off the drop zone or were carried was what you did in the air. You could panic and freeze you could look at the ground and possibly break your leg you could cry it really did not matter. The ground was coming.
She filed and appears to be in a rush to have it go through. OK. Don't rush it in your mind. Just keep taking your steps and keep living for you. Anything that happens different would be a nice surprise it does not change how you deal with it.
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Meanwhile my wife is perfectly happy where she is.
I doubt that for a second. We think everything is going great with them, they are soooooooooo happy. Go read my thread, they are not. Smoke and mirrors. That is what most of it is.
