Welcome and I'm sorry you are here but you are not alone.
We all understand what you are going thru and I'm glad that you joined. To be able to better help you, please let us know some stats on your stich like ages of you both, how long you've been married, if you have kids etc. Take a look at some of our signatures to get a better idea.
You have taken the first step by getting Michele's book. Re-read, re-read, re-read. Don't beat yourself up for doing things that are part of human nature. DB'g takes time and effort. It's behavior modification. You have to undue a lifetime of routines etc. and that will not happen over night. BUT if you are dedicated to making the changes YOU need to for YOU, it will become your NEW natural reaction.
We're here for you so please keep posting.
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M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
