Hi Sandi2, I was afraid of that. I tried to keep it simple but.....is there a way to have this conversation that doesn't sound weak???

I'm concerned that allowing it to continue without mentioning anything is also weak.

I feel I've regained some of my strength over the past 6 months and thought that maybe someone who is really strong wouldn't hesitate to say what was on their mind.

You can be brutally honest - I can handle it.