you weren't harsh at all. I'm really struggling right now with what to do. I'm beginning to think all of the physical touching I get from her is either because she's asleep and doesn't realize she's doing it or out of obligation. It only happens if I initiate it. If I don't, there is nothing.

That's making it pretty easy to not care because obviously she doesn't.

m 40
w 38
married 15
together 18
d11, d8
bomb 12/19/10
2nd bomb 3/30/11
COMPLETELY DONE