Originally Posted By: islander
Yes. But....like I said I can not just be her friend when she needs something. I will speak to her when i have to, abd be as pleasant as i can be She already considers us friends, that is not enough for me. She is choosing to go down this road.


true, she is choosing to go down this road..but you want her back and won't be able to do that if you are short with her in your limited contact. I made that mistake last week and apologized later for it. She was glad I did becuase she said I sounded mean in my texts. Your W is judging every little thing you do right now. Be the BEST possible you.


Me: 39
W: 44
SS 24
SD: 20
M: 13
T: 15
Bomb: 2/16/11
EA: 2/14/11
Papers Signed 4/13/11
Divorced 5/13/11