You are right , every one is different. You have to do what is right for you. My w and I were also good friends during our M. I just think that If I remain freinds with her while she is sleeping with OM, that she will be just fine with that and have the best of both worlds.

Almost like I am ok with it and that she should continue.

This is one of those sitches that I struggle with all the time. If i seem really angry with her, then there is no chance but by the same token, the above stuff also rings true.

Not really sure which approach to take but Like I have said before, usually when I drop the rope completely, she shows signs of interest.

You do whats best for you Islander.

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BITS
M-46
W-42
M-16y
T-19 y
s10 s15
BombDec.19/09
Sep-F16/10
Sep Papers signed by W- June 30/10
Recon July 5/10
PA foundOut- Oct 30/10
Mental HospNov/10
moved out Nov/10
Leg Sep Mar 15/11