Today is worse than yesterday. He is with her now. He has taken the afternoon off work to spend it with her. He thinks I don't know but I used the locate my phone that he installed on his mobile (I know I shouldn't have) and he is at her house. How do I handle this? I spoke to him at lunch time - he was kind & suggested we go out to the cinema this week then he goes to her. I feel lost and so deeply hurt - I cannot believe this is happening to me. I want to phone him again with some excuse so it disturbs whatever they are doing - I know I must not but I have to do something and I don't know what else to do. I need to find some way through this. Please help if you have any advice? How can he be with her knowing how much it hurts me & knowing he has a family? He used to be such a good, kind family man - how do I get that person back?
