interesting day/evening yesterday. Yesterday, it rained in my area like nothing I have ever seen. H had to go to work. I made soup and was pretty much in the house all day. I made no contact.

He came home and said "Did you make soup? How is it"(no the soup fairy dropped by) I said it was good and he said that he expected noting less of me. Later he ate some of the muffins that I made and went on and on about them. No reaction from me other than thank you. We were watching TV and he kept asking me if I was ok with his choice. All I said was "sure." 1/2 the way through I got up and said "Night".
He seemed confused by this.

When is the RIGHT time to bring up the R talk again?

me:51
H: 48
No kids together
M:14 years
seperated:Ask him to GET OUT 3/21/11
Piecing 09/14