......are these itty bitty baby steps?

[MHL]

When we turned to hug each other before saying goodnight, XH leaned in to kiss me on the lips and I reciprocated. It was a sweet kiss, like our previous kisses (this was the 3rd in the last 3 months

Hey GAG,

I have been lurking around keeping up with your sitch just not posting much, but still here anxiously awaiting your posts each week.

This is great that your XH initiated the kiss, VERY NICE. It seems that he is warming up to you more and more. He is getting comfortable with you again, you have done an excellent job of establishing trust with him.

Keep it up, I know that the there have been a couple of things that have given you "pause" (the clicking and the vacation thing) , however there are many, many more things that are a positive from my perspective. Could be that the vacation was planned long ago and that it was mutually paid for and it would be a difficult thing to cancel. I will be interested to see your XH's behavior towards you upon his return.....

could be that he needed to get this vacation behind him before things progress forward with you?????

Just a thought.

Keep it up!!!

Cheers