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I do not hold a grudge against you for this, it certainly is against my wishes to keep our children together as a family but that is out of my hands."


I would either reword this sentence or leave it out.

A WAW in an A has to be hit rather hard. You need to make it sound as if it is to your advantage (and the children's) to move ahead without her.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!