I am sitting here at work and thinking of how to approach her tonight. Here is what I am thinking of saying to her:
Please read this and let me know fi I should even bother with this crap:
"Unless you can tell me otherwise, it appears you have no desire what so ever to stay or make this work. If you will let me know your true plan then we need to start working on paperwork and plans for separation or divorce, whatever it is you are wanting.
I do not hold a grudge against you for this, it certainly is against my wishes to keep our children together as a family but that is out of my hands."