Originally Posted By: lea74
They also said I wouldnt let my sons go skiing which is not the case at all. I just said that they need to be home on time - as per the contact order my XH asked for.

Will he ever take responsibility for his decisions or actions? Will I always be blamed for everything??? He keeps calling me bitter?? I am not bitter - well not anymore. I am just disappointed at his behaviour as a person and a father.


Hi, don't know your whole store, though I see your exH is a piece of work, I say, pick your battles carefully... you loose some you get some... sometimes, you got to loose something to get something.

And the thing about you being bitter, HA! as the kids counselor would say "he is so full of himself" please! as if the kids' well-being mattered less than your contempt to him, they think they are all that. Good luck honey, I too had to deal for a while with the stupid couple that was exH and crazy new W.

For the boys sake... again... choose your battles, only the kids matter now and sometimes we have to make tough desicions.


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

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2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.