Thank you Scylla, snodderly, SA, CW and Tad.

I've been at this long enough to know that what you all said is true. I think it just hurt to see that he posted a picture related to OW for all to see, especially when he's mostly kept his A away from me. And that he is doing things with OW that he always refused to do with me just makes me mad.

I guess it's normal to still have feelings related to what our Ss are doing at times, even when we think we're pretty detached. This did hit me in the gut a little more than I would like. I've been reminding myself all day to focus on the things I can control. What he chooses to say about himself on his professional website is definitely not among them.


M 65
H 64
T 39 & M 36 @ S 12/08
Two Ds

Do you know that the harder thing to do and the right thing to do are usually the same thing? Nothing that has meaning is easy. ~ The Weather Man