IronMan - some of the stuff with D is just what it is/is the age and some of it is crap your W is putting you guys through. One other place I feel like anger creeps up on me, when I see my kids hurting. I told H today that I am concerned that as this hurts the kids in their lives (him missing things, etc), that I will become more angry and frustrated with the situation. I hope that is not true. It feels good to let the anger go and the kids seem a lot happier. I've accepted the situation with 2 houses and so has my 2.5 year old.
Faith is, at one and the same time, absolutely necessary and altogether impossible. --Stanislaw Lem