hello hap

i am so sorry you find yourself here

that said, it is a great place for comfort, support and advice

i wish i had magic words.......this is my 2nd time here and now my h is adamant about divorce

he does not live with us anymore and that be making things easier for me

just make sure you are taking care of yourself and your children

eat well, exercise, try to sleep well and make yourself the kind of person anyone would be attracted to

check back here when you can
you will get lots of good advice

take care

BITS