I am a bit confused in applying the db last resort method.
I will not as about her day, not follow her around, not do any date nights and anything which could be considered pursuing.
However in the interest of her still seeing the good about us, do I accept her invitation to watch tv together? When I plan a family activity for Sunday with kids do I include her, tell her about it, get her input, or pretend like she does not exist?
I want her to have full freedom without pressures from me, however I dont want to shoo away her positive advances and signs of interest. Or is that a bad idea so then she will think she can have her freedom but when it's time for us to spend together when she wants I am sitting waiting for her.
Need help finding balance between last resort and still being involved and giving positive reinforcement. I am confused.
Right not she is full blown mid life crisis. There is full blown EA on her side but so far has not been intimate.
