My new dilemma is that today when D12 was out with H, he asked her if she wanted to go on vacation with him, ow, and her family to the Outer Banks.
D12 has thus far refused to meet ow. This tactic may be the one that wears her down. She may jump at this chance because we've never been on a 'family' vacation together because we could never afford it.
So, while H ran out on his responsibilities and left it all in my lap, he's taking yet another vacation with ow and this time trying to take my youngest with them.
Obviously, I don't want her going with them. It's not the kind of environment I really want her exposed to. I just don't know what to do or should do, if anything. Any advice?
