You think I should totally ignore her communication, refuse to agree to a co-petition for divorce, and let her serve me legally for divorce?
Bust she is going to want it either way I am afraid.
Originally Posted By: Busting
And now I have absolutely no problem at all taking whatever time I need to figure out whatever is best for me. No matter what I have promised others, or what others have promised me.
This is good advice to give yourself.
I am not telling you to sign or not sign the petition. Like I said before if she wants it she will get it this way or the hard way.
The hard way IMO is you fighting her tooth and nail and where is that going to get YOU?
Protect yourself. Legally. Financially and emotionally.
You can do that without being an a$$hole.
I say choose what is best for YOU.
I think it is good that you see that you cannot control her and can let her go and do what she wants.
That doesn't mean you have to agree with it.
She thinks you're mad at her because what she is doing she knows is wrong.
At least wrong in the sense that she is your W and is the one breaking her promise.
You are not obligated to relieve her of this guilt. It is hers not yours.
Ignore her if you feel that is best for you. Or talk to her calmly and without trepidation.
I would not talk about your feelings with her or R or anything that doesn't involve necessities about your kids.
She knows that you don't want this D.
When you lay down your guns she can't fight you anymore. That is for YOU not her.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
