I have a business relationship with two of H's female partners. Yesterday, I went on his business website to confirm their work email addys, and happened upon H's professional profile. Among the list of things he claims to enjoy in his free tiime is horseback riding, accompanied by a picture of him with a horse...WTF?
During the entire 40 years we were together, he claimed to HATE horses, and showed absolutely no interest when Ds and I were taking dressage lessons. And now riding is among his favorite things??? Of course it is. OW is an equestrian.
H also hated cats, but never returned Ds cat, who she asked me to keep, after he catsat him while I was out of town over a year ago. He also swore he would never live in a particular place in our area where I wanted to live, and then proceeded to rent a house there.
Who is this person??? Was the 40 years I was with him a complete lie? Is he really a lying, cheating, horse and cat loving dog? Or is he the respectable, honest, upstanding and loving H and father I knew?
I SO want to call him on this sh*t. I'm biting my lip and sitting on my hands. Someone, anyone -- please talk me down so I can enjoy this beautiful day!
M 65 H 64 T 39 & M 36 @ S 12/08 Two Ds
Do you know that the harder thing to do and the right thing to do are usually the same thing? Nothing that has meaning is easy. ~ The Weather Man
