Taking JS's advice about timing. Doing the calm / confident 180 thing and focusing on family this weekend. Took family and a few friends out for a free orienteering class - felt like we were on the amazing race. Even S5 kept up. Good family team building, I hope. Because this is sort of up my alley got to do some family "leading" and teaching kids. Highly recommend - besides, it's free. Avoided several conversations that were bound to go wrong, avoided complaining about ANYTHING (well, almost), tried to stay positive...actually, avoiding one of those situations right now.