she has to be pushed to move a tiny step at a time.
Every time you push her it's a step away from you. Can you imagine how you would feel if someone was pushing you in a direction you didn't want to go? The longer the push the harder the resistance.
Stop pushing.
Live your own life and let her be, whether your life is with her or without her. There is your choice.
Whatever you choose, make your life attractive and see who watches.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
