Busting

Why do have to say anything?

What do you hope to accomplish?

Originally Posted By: Busting
You totally have my blessing and support to do whatever you need to do to feel whole and happy within yourself.


Does she have your blessing? Why does she need it?

Do you really agree with her choice?

Or

Recognize that she is free to make her choice even if you don't agree with it.

This "awareness" is for you.

Not her.

I don't agree with my W's choice to continue the way she is living because it is not the life I desire to share with someone.

I don't support it.

I only see that she must make her own choices and live with the consequences.

I don't apply guilt. Or anger.

But also don't offer encouragement, support or alleviate the natural consequence of her choices...

I ask again. What is your purpose in communicating this to her?

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am