wow...I've been out of the loop.
Not that things have been great but they are just chugging along.
I do have a question to ask you guys.

W is still here and getting better every day...well, most days.
Still very little to no affection.
I can tell she's trying. She knows I like to hear from her during the day and she's been calling or texting when she's working. She also knows I like to be touched, even if we walk by each other and she gives me a little touch. She's been doing that too.

Here's what I'm afraid of.
We're moving in 3 days basically back to her hometown. I'm cool with it and have a lot of friends there too.
I'm completely over any sort of infidelity thoughts. It was all on me and I have owned it and am throwing it away.

My problem comes with...what to do next? We've put on hold any R talk until after the move. We've agreed to just go with the flow for now. I'm wondering how to actually start talking and actually start WORKING on the R.

Any suggestions???


m 40
w 38
married 15
together 18
d11, d8
bomb 12/19/10
2nd bomb 3/30/11
COMPLETELY DONE