I forgot to add that when H text asking us if we wanted dinner at his place, D sang, "Lonely, I am so lonely ...... " She doesn't say too much about H but she is very perceptive in her observations.
H was with me Wed and Thurs and with D and I Sat night. Fri night he was home but was with her on Friday during the day. I think that Fri is his regular day with her but the rest of the time he seems to be home alone. Last night he served up the curry and put aside an extra dish for tonight's dinner. I've seen him do that a few times.
The reality is why wouldn't he have made the curry for him and ow and her son?
I don't know why he is hanging on so tightly to ow but he has given me a few clues......he has said his relationship with ow is different to his relationship with me (didn't elaborate) he said he can't get rid of ow and take a chance with me because if it doesn't work with me he will be all alone (the other night he said he doesn't have lots of friends so I guess that kind of explains his reluctance to move on from her).
He keeps telling me to be patient so I guess that is a real clue for me. I am also figuring I can't be anymore hurt than I've already been. A wise friend suggested a put this on a timeline so that I don't see this as waiting indefinitely.
Just some random thoughts for today.....tomorrow is a new day!!
