I forgot to add that when H text asking us if we wanted dinner at his place, D sang, "Lonely, I am so lonely ...... " She doesn't say too much about H but she is very perceptive.

H was with ow on Friday and I think that is his regular day with her but the rest of the time he seems to be home alone. Last night he served up the curry and put aside an extra dish for tonight's dinner. I've seen him do that a few times.

The reality is why wouldn't he have made the curry for him and ow and her son?

I don't know why he is hanging on so tightly to ow but he did tell me the other night that he didn't have lots of friends and I think he did say he can't get rid of her because if it doesn't work with me he will be all alone and with nobody.