I had a former coworker get divorced, leave the newspaper and go back to law school in Iowa. The ex moved to Iowa as well because they had a special needs child and needed each other to raise the kid.

About six months after the D was final he started dating someone and then all of a sudden the ex wanted to start dating again.

They got back together, moved back in with each other and he was my hope for a long time. But six months together and he moved back out.

He said there were just things they didn't like about each other and he wished he hadn't done it because he had to go through the pain all over again.

That's a tough story ... but I think most of the LBSs on the board would give it a shot. I know I wouldn't slam the door on STBXW ... but I'd go really slow too.


Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11
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