Punkin - just caught up with your tread...I think that your H is behaving very badly, why not call you or let you know through the kids that he wants something from your home...he is entitled to get his share...but to be sneaking around like a criminal?????...and have you discover the "theft"????....just not right. I'm totally shocked that the police didn't ask to come along with him when you were home....
Keep a list of what he took...
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO