WAW leaving in June - Do I have time?

[ninelives]

hey scared. Hope you are navigating this awful situation to the best of your ability. Almost impossible to attain, but try and not act on emotion. That is a killer. Usually you will do things that are counterproductive to your ultimate goal.

BE strong

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[Scared2Def]

Sandi, I am here, just got done watching Grease with Daughter and wife. I hate movies like this because love brings out so many emotions......

I am doing ok though, Have not really talked to her yet. ALL DAY and maybe 5 words total.

Crazy but hey whatever.

Thank you so much for thinking of me Sandi. It means so much to know people are here to assist me.

[Scared2Def]

9lives,
same thing, thank you so much for being here for me.

It means more than you know!

[ninelives]

Most of us are either in the same boat now or have been there at one time. Its a hell of a boat that needs to be shipwrecked.

But we all know what the pain is like and want to help each other out. Nobody here wants to inflict pain and even when they tell it like it is. Sometimes we need to be told how stupid we are acting because we are so close to it.

Anyway, Get strong, this will work out one way or another.

How will you come out of it? Hopefully a better, wiser person.

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[Scared2Def]

I think she or does have an affair going on. I suppose it does not even matter at this point. I hate her for all of this. She can just decide to ruin 3 people's lives and none of us 3 have say. F this shhhhh

[Scared2Def]

She has her computer locked now. I can get around this stuff but why even bother.

[ninelives]

I think its important to be sure scared. No matter how much it hurts and brother does it ever effing hurt. I would have rather had my right arm cut off than to have found those texts back in Oct. But being sure is important.

All the best man, prepare for the worst but hope for the best.

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[Scared2Def]

Well nothing said between us all day, she went to bed without acknowledging me but I like that she is starting to seem uncomfortable finally. I am so tired of feeling like to bastard of the house!

[Scared2Def]

Another awkward day, no communication at all.

[ninelives]

I know exactly what you are going through. I hated living in that environment when we still lived in the same house but were barely speaking to each other.

Dinner was brutal and everytime she came out of "our" room felt like a dagger.

I finally asked her to move out but IM not sure if that was the best course of action. Of course at that time I did not know about the OM.

I dont envy you at all S2D and I dont know which is better, to be alone or to b with her under these circumstances. Thats why its important to find out for sure about OM.

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