My plan, as I mentioned from my coaching call, is not to go completely dark, but being more unpredictable. I need to ignore more of them than I have been.

My coach and I talked a lot about her text. She agreed that it looks like she is using D as an excuse to keep contact going. You're completely right that she needs to feel some loss. Both of time with D and of me.

There has been a definite change of the breeze lately. The messages have picked up, longer and also more questions about me. I need to just take it for what it is, a very confused woman who has no idea what she wants.

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