Just trying to fiugure out something that is unaswerable.
Why would a mother walk away from a life where there is potential for happiness.
I know that she was unhappy and there were things that I was blind to and yes I wasnt always as attnetive as I should have been.
But when she came back, she did notice the changes and made comments on how hard I was trying and that even the first time she knew I was a good husband, way better than most around here.
She recognizes that she has mental issues and that she may never be happy so my question is why would you compromise the happiness of your children and the security of your home to live a lifestyle that is uncertain at best with a man that has two young children, is NOT respected in this town, Has a dead end job and is not attractive.
She says she doesnt see a bright future for herself and is now working as a Nurses Aid where she doesnt have a concrete schedule and will basically be on call for the unforeseeable future.
She got 60 thousand bucks from the settlement and on Thursday and is already down to 34 thousand from the debts she owes.
Has no pension and did not go after mine which is a very healthy one. And is only getting a couple of hundred bucks a month for child support.
Has lost the support of some of her family and from some of her friends. Realizes she is a laughing stock to some people in town.
BUT STILL continues down this path of destruction.
Can anybody explain this to me?
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