It's up to you if you want to put up with her contast TM's about the D, but it looks very over-kill to me. She needs to experience some consequences of her decisions, and not having her D in her care 100% is one of those. She chose this. This is what she wanted, right? Why does she expect you to soothe away her pain?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
