First convo after some time and you did bring up R talk again. Some hints with the songs and also with asking her again about the coaching session.
That decision is completely yours, but be mindful of it. Think about whether or not it is the best thing for you to be doing.
Hey Country thanks for stopping by no need to apologize for the any tapping. I don't run from them although some things are a slip on my part some things are done on purpose.
You know how I got the first DB session? I asked
You know how we read the first 2 chapters of 5LL? I asked
Sometimes you take a risk and see what happens. Truth of the matter is we almost read the 5LL chpt 3 yesterday but we were both tired did not think the convo would take as long as it did.
Sometimes I miss calculate, we all do to a degree sometimes I test on purpose.
I understand that. I just had a coaching session and one thing I need to remember is to take some risks. I haven't really been doing it at all. So I agree with you, risks need to be taken. I would just caution you on how often you do it.
The DB session and the book sound positive, and I am sure they were to you. But what about her? I just sense that she is still feeling pressure from you. She obviously still has some anger there, and any pressure from you is only going to remind her of it.
My advice, and of course take it for what it's worth, is to work in more convos that exhibit ZERO pressure from you. Nothing that could even be considered hints of R talk. Like in this last convo, even the reference to the website is still a little hint of pressure, and you can see by her response that she felt it. Just talk about the lightest things possible, weather, TV, a joke, music (but no heartstrings songs!), etc. If she says something that hints at it, change the subject. Like I said, only my 2 pennies....
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