She is obviously VERY confused...Let her go to the counseling session and see what happens after that...don't let your fear of not doing something change YOUR course.
Thanks Islander
Originally Posted By: cat04
Busting,
With you, I have seen extreme highs and really low lows.
Busted!
Originally Posted By: cat04
You have to try to stabilize yourself a bit...
Try to find a bit of balance.
Thank you for that, Cat.
Originally Posted By: cat04
Practice not touching the hot stove for a while.
It isn't that hard, you just have to force yourself sometimes.
That was very well put.
Admittedly, I have come up with 100 different variations of how I could respond, and it interfered with my sleep last night.
She has also made a request for me to send the keys for the Harley I have given her, so I MIGHT respond and tell her something about that, but if I say anything at all, it will not be until Sunday night.
We'll see how I feel about it tomorrow night.
Thank you so much for helping me get back to neutral and stabilize myself.
I am being the possibility of:
1) Integrity 2) Loving myself completely. 3) Things flowing naturally between us, without any fear or attachment to the outcome.