Have you looked into Retrouvaille? The website is www.helpourmarriage.org. They have weekends where you learn how to talk to each other in a constructive way. Changing how you talk completely changes how you interact. And the change that comes over the marriage is incredible! It's only 2 days, but it makes all the difference in the world. I recommend that you check and see when there will be a Retro weekend new you.