Country,
Try not to make anything of it. I know, it is hard. And I have a bad habit of not taking my own advice. But, just let the contact happen for now. Don't get too tied up with why it is happening. Focus on how you are going to DB when she calls, not why she is calling, OK? Who knows why the WAS does anything that they do. Just today, I was telling my C about my W's actions and he was coming out of his seat. He told me today that some of my W's actions are some of the strangest he has ever seen in his 20 years of professional counseling. He kept asking me if she was seeing a C. I told him that as far as I know, she is not. He just kept shaking his head and professing that she really needs help...

Let your WAS be as crazy as she wants. You can't control that and you shouldn't. Just worry about how you are going to let it effect you and your daughter for now.

Keep your head up!

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...