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[ninelives]

So once the dust settles from the funeral. I should go somewhat dark and let her figure things out for herself. Only converse when neccessary about the kids?

I do feel compassion for her but also recognize that she created much of her own woes.

I will try and take care of me and my boys the best I can. I mean I am in pretty good shape physcially. Am getting a good handle on my financial situation. Just need to get my head on straight once and for all.

ABSOLUTELY NO RELATIONSHIP TALK no matter what.

If she threatens suicide because her life is so bad, then I will say, " I will call your sister to call you" Please dont lay that on me anymore.

I have to detach and mean it. Despite loving this woman for whatever reason, I MUST detach from her and so i believe I have to not see her or talk to her and only text when the kids are involved.

Is that the way to go right now?

You may not know this but I have a degree but I feel like one of the stupidest men in North America.

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