Time to start a new thread. For those interested in my long winded stories, feel free to catch up. If not, I could always use guidance from this great community. Thanks for checking in!

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2125062#Post2125062

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2129156#Post2129156

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2135227#Post2135227


Long story short...

W had an 11 month EA/PA with a new GF of hers. It began when W was three months pregnant with our first child. I discovered A in January 2011 and W made no contact promise with OW. W moved in with her brother for a month and just got her own apartment down the street a few weeks ago. We split custody of our 6 month old 50/50. W and I are on friendly terms. W is in self discovery. W needs to discover if she is indeed gay. If so, we will end up in divorce. If not, we will determine if our marriage can be reconciled. Very long road ahead, but I will remain patient. Yep. That's about it.


Me - 33 W - 33
S - 9 months
M - 3 years
T - 5.5 years
Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY
PA discovered - 1/18/11
PA began - 3/22/10
Separated