BITS, I need some serious help today. A certain day next week would have been our 10th anniversary. What should I do? Let it pass without notice of any kind? Acknowledge in some small way? Acknowledge it in some larger way?
Get her a card that reads:
"On the this special day a special message just for you.
LOOK INSIDE"
<<<<<Inside of of card>>>>>>>>>>
"No really, look inside"
I would not get her a card or anything.
Or if you feel you have to. Get one.
Sign and seal it.
And put it in a drawer.
Pull it out when she is able to read it.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
