AJ - Glad to hear the time with the in-laws is going well. D and S are loving the attention, and remember that their grandparents love them. You in-laws are not responsible for the choices your H has made. Let them spoil the kids a little.

I still have no had any contact with my in-laws in two months. I am pretty sure I have told you before, but I was/am very close to them. It kills me, but I do not push it because I know and understand that they are W's parents and not mine.

I think the only boundary you should make is the no R talk about your H. Keep the conversation light and about the kids.

You are doing awesome.

Me - 33 W - 33
S - 9 months
M - 3 years
T - 5.5 years
Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY
PA discovered - 1/18/11
PA began - 3/22/10
Separated