AJ, is H in counseling? Do you see any signs of improvement? You've been at this 8 months? I've only been at it 2 months and I'm about ready to throw in the towel. I do not like my H at the moment, and I feel it's less and less likely that I'll even want him back if he decides he wants to be back. He hasn't been calling the kids on the 4 days a week he doesn't see them and yesterday I asked why. He said he was going to call them every day from now on, but wanted us to agree that when he calls it's only to talk to the kids, not me. I find him disgusting right now and I'm actually glad he moved out because my stress level has gone WAY down since he left. Now if only I could figure out how to not have him in my home 3 days a week watching the kids while I work.....


Me- 35
H- 36
M- 7
T- 9
D3, D5
Bomb 1/21/11
EA/PA began 12/10?
Discovered A 3/2/11
S- 3/3/11
OW gone- 4/27/11
H says he wants to reconcile, but lacking action