Above all, try and not make the same mistakes over and over. I am the world champion of that despite being reasonably intelligent. Please listen to Sandi and some of the vets, to the letter.
Devise a strategy that when your emotions get the better of you, find a way to turn them off and stick to the DB principles.
Thats the best advice I can give you. Emotions are your worst enemy and will make you do and say things that are very counterproductive.
All the best
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