There are a lot of people here on the board that know exactly how you are feeling right now. You can get through and hopefully your M will be saved, if that's what you want.

But first, you must realize that you cannot discuss the problems in the R with your H at this time. I know you're wondering how things will be corrected if not discussed, but we learn in DBing that it is our changes that influence the MR. When you need to vent or ask questions then come here instead of confronting H.

One of the worst things you might do is act like the desperate LBW. That is very unattractive to men. A self-confident woman is what will attract the man. Therefore, you have to stop with any whining, clinging, and needy behavior. Act as if you have had an awaken and you are moving forward. You've been given a long list of 180's you can work on, beginning right now.

This all may sound like a lot of "fluff", but if you'll follow the DB advice, your life can be so much better.

So, pull yourself together, and start eating and sleeping again! Get outdoors and walk. You have to take care of you!

((hugs))

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!